The Awakened Parent Community

Agreement

Introduction

Hi there. Our names are Ilka, Liv and Kristyn trading as “The Awakened Parent Community.”

As part of your participation in The Awakened Parent Community, you agree to the following propositions:

You are becoming more and more aware of the kind of parent you do not want to be and you are ready to own that and change it.

You understand that the mind has subconscious links to deep emotional states that can be brought up during these calls, even when all precautions are taken by the practitioner.

You understand that what bothers you about other people, places, things is about you, your own beliefs, emotions and past experiences (not anything outside of you).

You feel sure that you are able to manage your self triggers, either yourself or through asking for support during calls with Ilka, Liv and Kristyn or via communication channels that have been mutually agreed to.

You feel sure that you can manage your emotional state and ask for support if you become bothered when other people participating in a session express their experiences, emotions and stories.

Our intention in offering access to The Awakened Parent Community:

Is to give you an opportunity to practice the transformational skills and tools that the parents of our community rave about.

For example:

Totally ignoring my child when they’re emotional TO remaining calm, leaning in and connecting with their needs

Feeling extreme anger when my mother tells me to spend more time cleaning my house TO calmly speaking my truth with her about what’s important to me

Yelling at my child for not listening to me TO centering myself, becoming more open and embracing a communication style that is mutually respectful

Our intention is to show you how:

You can choose to awaken moment by moment to a more connected, emotionally regulated, open-hearted, peace-loving, liberated parent-child relationship

To be supported as you deepen and strengthen your parent-child relationship by committing to your transformational inner work

To join a supportive, like-minded community of conscious parents dedicated to their own awakening and changing the current parenting paradigm so that future generations are happier, healthier and living more purpose filled lives

You can find out more about us and our philosophy here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/awakenedparentcommunity

​Parties to this Agreement

Ilka Oster, Olivia Valentine-Greer & Kristyn Perry Trading as The Awakened Parent Community

ABN: 37 645 386 942

AND

You – The Awakened Parent Community Client.

This document sets out the Terms and Conditions you need to be aware of when you participate in The Awakened Parent Community products and services.

Please take a moment to read it carefully as it sets out your important rights and obligations and we care about making sure we all know where we stand.

When you sign up to participate in The Awakened Parent Community you agree that you are over the age of 18 and willing to be bound by these Terms and Conditions.

If you don’t accept this agreement, you should notify us immediately so we can discuss your concerns.

If you have any questions or need further information, please contact Ilka or Olivia or Kristyn at hello@theawakenedparentcommunity.com

The Awakened Parent Community

Delivery

The Awakened Parent Community creates and provide a range of products. Online content is hosted on a membership platform and live sessions are delivered via Zoom. The Awakened Parent Community uses Facebook and FB messenger to deliver support. If you do not have Zoom installed on your device and you would like to download Zoom in advance, please click this link:

https://zoom.us/signup

and follow the instructions.

Mutual Responsibilities

OUR RESPONSIBILITY

Experience and Qualifications

Ilka, Liv, and Kristyn have actively been doing personal transformational work for over a combined 50 years. Each with 3 children, we still see them as our greatest teachers.

Our greatest personal transformation has largely come through our conscious, growth focused, ever expanding relationships with our children.

Liv


Comes from a lifelong search for peace and practical tools for wellbeing and freedom from my internal mental and emotional chaos.

A mother of two small humans and one young adult, Liv has a vast array of experiences to draw on as each pregnancy and birth has been a uniquely individual experience, as individual as each of my children are. Her Mothering practices evolved from very mainstream in the beginning to gentle, conscious and attachment parenting practices.

A founding member of The Gentle Breastfeeder Facebook group with a decade of experience in online peer support in Gentle parenting and breastfeeding support groups.

A part of The Awakened Parent Community for the past 4 years after participating in the Motherhood Journey in 2019. Liv is passionate about the eutaptics® modality and currently studying Level 1 eutaptics®.

A dedicated gentle parent living an unschooling lifestyle. Liv is vocally supportive of children's individual rights, so much so that she participated in Dayna Martins Radical Unschooling and Advocacy & Coaching Program in 2022/23 with Ilka.

Kristyn


A Mum to 2 adult children aged 18 and 17 and a 4 yr old, she highly values attachment parenting principles.

Involved with The Awakened Parent Community for 3 years. Kristyn has been passionate about personal development, being self responsible and seeking to live in joy since her teens.

Through her experience working alongside families, mums and bubs and young people she has further developed her skills and excitement to support mums to become the mothers they want to be.

Kristyn is studying Level 1 eutaptics® online and has been mentoring in The Awakened Parent Community for over 2 years.

An advocate for children living their joy and celebrating the journeys of the mums.

Ilka


After 24 years as an unschooling mother, Ilka searched for a way to truly become the mother she wanted to be, finding Robert G Smith and eutaptics® in March 2014. The process Ilka learned from him was so life changing, she went on to grow a successful business empowering 100's of clients using this process, whilst mothering her teenage children. Ilka has also supported Robert in teaching all 4 levels of eutaptics® to students. She is one of the most experienced advanced eutaptic's® practitioners in the world. With over 10 years of experience working and more than 10,000 hours with clients.

Ilka’s work with clients includes:

Hypnosis, NLP, Schema Therapy and Imagery Re-scripting (Memory Flipping, Memory Re-consolidation), Safe Place Memory (Happy Memory), Chair Technique Elements of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Mindfulness of Emotions and Body Sensations, Mindfulness of Breath, Conative Diffusion (compassion for younger self), Emotional Freedom Techniques, Hypnotic Language, Timeline Therapy, Provocative Therapy, Exposure Therapy.

Working with mothers is truly Ilka's happy place as her beliefs, her values, the eutaptics® process, her unschooling life and many other areas of study and practice (some listed below) enhance the experience for conscious mothers as she is so wholly aligned with the needs and Mothering Practices of the Mums she journeys with.

Further Study and Practice:

NVC (Non Violent Communication) Ho opono pono, Byron Katie's, "The work", Human Design,

Honour/Dishonour, Suveranty, Theta Healing, Personal Training, 5 years running programs to enhance Wealth Mindset, Home Birth, Dayna Martin Unschooling Advocacy Coaching, Children's Rights and Natural Immunity Advocate


YOUR RESPONSIBILITY

Please read this document very carefully. Ensure you completely understand your rights and obligations in relation to your participation in The Awakened Mothering Inclusions that you are attending.

If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us prior to participating in any of our products and services.

Sharing of Personal Information whilst participating in all The Awakened Parent Community products and services.

You understand that if you participate actively in any/all of our products and services, you may choose to share information about your personal life and/or parenting challenges.

You agree that you are totally responsible for whatever you say. You agree that you will not breach anyone else’s intellectual property or confidentiality, and if you do, you will fully indemnify us from any claims made against us as a result of your participation.

This means if someone else gets upset because you have shared something that actually belongs to them or they expected you to keep secret, it is your problem, not ours.

It is never necessary to share any personal information. It is your responsibility to make known your need for privacy.


Emotional Well-Being

Your emotional well-being is your responsibility.

One on one support is a better option for anyone who is unsure of their ability to manage their feelings in this emotionally charged group environment.

It is your responsibility to be aware of your own ability to manage emotional intensities based on SUDS [Subjective Unit Of Distress Scale] Rating, where 1 is the lowest and 10 is the highest in intensity.

If you have any concerns whatsoever regarding your ability to manage emotional intensities, please contact us prior to participating in any of our products and services.

You are welcome to book in for a 30 minute free discovery call prior to purchase, to address if our products and services are the right fit for you, based on this information. Please click the link to book a discovery call.

https://ilkaoster.com/discovery-call


Disclaimer

While eutaptics® is therapeutic in nature, it does not claim to resolve any issue for which specialized counselling, therapy or professional medical advice might be appropriate.

Your participation in any/all The Awakened Parent Community products and services is entirely your responsibility, and we cannot in any way be held responsible for your experience with any of the modality, processes and teachings that we provide.

You acknowledge and agree that you will not be paid or receive any monetary compensation for your participation in The Awakened Parent Community products and services, even if we should choose to use the recording commercially.

Results

We are offering The Awakened Parent Community products and services for your personal development only.

Your experience with The Awakened Parent Community products and services, including any emotional shifts or transformations that may occur, are subject to a wide range of factors that are beyond our control.

Because of this, we make no claims about the results that individuals may experience.

You may read the individual opinions of our clients here:

https://theawakenedparentcommunity.com/kind-words


Copyright

All material is copyright. No material can be reproduced in any format without express written permission from Ilka Oster -

eutaptics® Practitioner, Olivia Valentine-Greer, and Kristyn Perry.

You are welcome to share with others your successes from our coaching relationship. The primary method we develop our practice is through referrals.


Limitation of Liability

You agree that you have conducted your own research and chosen to purchase The Awakened Parent Community products and services, having made your own fully informed decision about whether they are right for you, and you take full responsibility and indemnify The Awakened Parent Community completely against any consequences that may occur as a result, including any costs, loss or damage of any kind arising out of your attendance or participation.

Intellectual Property

All materials that we choose to share in The Awakened Parent Community products and services are copyrighted to The Awakened Parent Community. No material can be reproduced in any format without our express written permission.

You consent to the audio and video recording of your voice, name and image being used for specific products and services of
The Awakened Parent Community, including its future use in any marketing or promotional material.

You understand and agree that the copyright for any/all recordings of The Awakened Parent Community products and services is solely owned by The Awakened Parent Community and you give us full rights to edit your appearance, and to promote, publish, distribute and broadcast it, now and in the future, without first obtaining your approval.

Publication and promotion may take place in whatever format and on whatever platform we choose, including websites, social media, apps and internet sites, without any acknowledgement or compensation to you.


Confidentiality

Group Tapping Sessions

Due to this being a group setting, we cannot control what other people do with your information. It's your responsibility to be mindful of what you share.

As a Practitioner, Ilka understands the sensitive nature of personal experiences, if you wish to retain your privacy, sessions can be undertaken without your personal content being shared.

Ilka may share your situations with others in The Awakened Parent Community as a teaching tool or to inspire and empower parents in a similar situation. When this occurs your name will not be used, and all efforts to maintain your privacy will be taken.

We do not offer confidentially due to the group nature of these sessions.


Confidentiality

Group Mama Mentoring Sessions

Due to this being a group setting, we cannot control what other people do with your information. It's your responsibility to be mindful of what you share.

Liv and Kristyn understand the sensitive nature of personal experiences, if you wish to retain your privacy. Mentor sessions can be undertaken without your personal content being shared.

Liv and Kristyn may share your situations with others in The Awakened Parent Community as a teaching tool or to inspire and empower parents in a similar situation. When this occurs your name will not be used, and all efforts to maintain your privacy will be taken.

We do not offer confidentially due to the group nature of these sessions.


Confidentiality

Facebook and FB Messenger Groups

Due to this being a Facebook group setting, we cannot control what other people do with your information.

Please make sure that you tailor the information you choose to disclose accordingly.

It's your responsibility to be mindful of what you share.

The Awakened Parent Community Partnership understands the sensitive nature of personal experiences, if you wish to retain your privacy in this public and group settings, you can choose to post anonymously [Only admins/moderators will see who posted]

The Awakened Parent Community Partnership may share your situations with others in The Awakened Parent Community as a teaching tool or to inspire and empower parents in a similar situation. When this occurs your name will not be used, and all efforts to maintain your privacy will be taken.

We do not offer confidentially due to the group nature of these Facebook spaces.



Recorded Content

Group Tapping Sessions With Ilka

Group Tapping Sessions with Ilka are NOT recorded.


Recorded Content

Group Mama Mentoring Sessions With Liv and Kristyn


Mama Mentoring Calls With Kristyn and Liv will be recorded. These Sessions will be owned and maintained by The Awakened Parent Community Partnership and will be uploaded to TAP community membership platforms to be viewed by any Member with a current Membership.

Jurisdiction & Dispute Resolution

If any concerns or issues arise out of The Awakened Parent Community or your participation
The Awakened Parent Community all agree to communicate with the intention of making a genuine effort to seek a win/win solution and resolve any dispute by negotiation and discussion.

If The Awakened Parent Community are unable to resolve a dispute between us, The Awakened Parent Community agree that litigation will be considered to be a last resort and pursue all reasonable means of alternative dispute resolution.

The Awakened Parent Community agree that we shall not publicly or privately disparage each other or anyone connected with us or you, but rather shall act in good faith to refrain from any conduct or communication which might reasonably be expected to interfere with the business and/or personal interests of each other.

Regardless of where you live in the world, you irrevocably agree that if the dispute resolution processes fail, the courts of Queensland, and the Commonwealth of Australia, will have exclusive jurisdiction.

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