Be loved now.

Unconditionally.

But, who mothers you?

What if you had (easy, middle-of-the-meltdown, post-decision) access to a support system completely free of judgment?

We know Mothers need a village. The Awakened Parent Community came from a loving collaboration between three conscious Mothers embodying the practices TAPC is founded on.

We bring our unique perspectives and wisdom to our time with you, while using cutting edge neuroscience combined with holistic practices and practical solutions.

At the heart of TAPC lies a convergence of three unique parenting stories flowing like tributaries to create the river that will support you as a Mother. We bring courage, compassion, and a bounty of non-judgemental experience to share with you in this revolution of love

We know the ‘How To’ of ‘Do Better’

We are Professional Mothers – here to hold you in steady, unconditional Love while you uncover Your Self

Meet your Mothers.

Ilka Oster

Olivia Valentine-Greer

Kristyn Perry

Hi, I’m Ilka

Living side by side with my children for 25 years, gave me unique insights and a truckload of opportunities for deeply questioning what is needed to become a conscious parent. Thanks to my well honed sense of humour I did my best to laugh and look after myself whilst supporting my children to flourish as themselves and do what sparked joy, passion, fun and fulfilment in their lives.

In my kids teen years I committed to learning one of the world’s most effective tools for breaking generational cycles and using it to persistently let go of patterns in my life that no longer served me. As a result I'm a handy "go to" person for parents who choose to prioritise doing the inner work on themselves. My greatest joy is bringing the wisdom from my experiences to support parents to thrive, grow and be safe, amazing grown ups for their kids.

Hi, I’m Liv

"i feel like i have unschooled my way through my adult life, and i love how it has turned out."

Liv is a reflector in human design who's main purpose is Unconditional Love.

She is the Mother of two small humans and one young adult. She is finding her way through herself and her conditioning to be able to support each of her children on each of their journeys with Unconditional Love.

Liv is a dedicated gentle parent living a Radically unschooling lifestyle. She is vocally supportive of children's individual rights, so much so that she participated in Dayna Martins Radical Unschooling and Advocacy & Coaching Program in 2022/23 with Ilka.

Hi, I’m Kristyn

"I am an advocate for children living their joy and celebrating the journeys of the mums."

Kristyn is Mum to 2 adult children aged 20 and 18 and a 5 yr old, she highly values attachment parenting principles.

Kristyn has been passionate about personal development, being self responsible and seeking to live in joy since her teens.

Through her experience working alongside families; mums and bubs and young people, she has further developed her skills and excitement to support Mums to become the Mothers they want to be.

Find out how to get to us.....

Casey Belz

Maryborough QLD

How do you put into words the life changing benefit of joining the Awakened Parent Community and having Ilka in your life! I'll give it a go.....

My answer: I was desperately trying to figure out why I was failing at parenting. I was failing at staying calm in all the tough moments when I promised myself I would be understanding and patient and then beating myself up afterwards when I wasn't a perfect parent. I am now empowered with the tools to get to the root of the issue and work through the anger, frustration and resentment and let it all go! I am genuinely happier and calmer and enjoying parenting! (even through the tougher experiences) I now see challenges as opportunities to grow !

My husband's answer: the benefit's are you are happier and calmer in situations and putting out more. The negative is you want everyone in the world to do it too.

Rosie Anstsis

Sunshine Coast QLD

Make this course a priority even if right now, it feels like nothing could make a difference

If you are ready to grow and challenge the way you currently live, feel and parent then make this course a priority for yourself and your family. You won’t regret anything you do to help improve the relationship with yourself and your family - even if right now, it feels like nothing could make a difference.

Rachael Hunt

Adelaide, South Australia

I must admit, although I felt so drawn to participate in the 12 week course, I thought "what on earth would I talk about,

I don't really have any deep trauma... I'm already quite a calm parent" and I hadn't ever done any type of tapping before, but holy moly was I wrong!! I uncovered things about myself that I knew were there, but I didn't even realise were affecting me in the way they were.

During the 12 week course with The Awakened Parent Community, my eyes opened further into the world of intergenerational trauma and how if we don't resolve our own trauma and triggers, our children will pick up on them, no matter how small and unconscious they may feel to us, and can take them on as their own.

Having this realisation, and working on myself, has helped me create a deeper relationship with myself and my two daughters. This can and will only make me a better parent to them so the cycle isn't repeated . I am 100% a tapping convert. I couldn't recommend highly enough. Thanks to The Awakened Parent Community!

The Awakened Parent Community is about Mothering.

And we believe Mothering is the greatest work/job/experience/profession/career life purpose you can embody. It is the best role you will ever play, the greatest adventure you'll ever go on, and the deepest opportunity for self-growth.

We recognise the value Mothers bring to the world, how important it is to Mother in our own truths, and in our own ways, and find support. Because the journey inwards - to your Self - is one of the most valuable assets we can offer as Mothers

Yes, it can be scary as fuck!

Yes, you need courage to do it!

Yes, it’s the most important work you will ever do in your life.

And Yes! We are here for you.

Wondering why your kids haven’t been mentioned yet?

It’s because the Awakened Parent Community space focuses entirely on you – the parent – doing your own inner work.

The truth is the kids are fine.

We know they are whole and complete and when we, as parents, can align with ourselves, we’re able to Mother them in joy and ease.

In unconditional love.

4 Week Journey

We know that you are whole and complete and that with the right support and love, you will flourish into being Your true self. And we know the change you need begins in you.